Showing posts with label Psychopaths. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Psychopaths. Show all posts

Tuesday, 2 August 2022

How Monsters Hide in Plain Sight By Alexandrea Weis

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Many who have watched documentaries on serial killers, rapists, and con artists often wonder how victims didn’t see them coming until it was too late. After all, the perpetrator’s abhorrent behavior is evident to everyone sitting at home safely tucked behind computer screens and televisions.

Unfortunately, countless people have had the misfortune of encountering psychopaths. They are narcissistic, manipulative, impulsive, and lack empathy. Psychopaths are usually charismatic and skilled at playing a role to get what they want. Like Bernie Madoff, who conned investors out of millions, they have no conscience, show no remorse for their actions, and are callous, unemotional, and morally depraved. These criminals pretend to care when it suits their needs and can present as adjusted, well-rounded individuals to hide their cruel or deviant behavior. Remember Ted Bundy and how he charmed his trial judge? Bundy and others like him are not considered legally insane because they know right from wrong. They just don’t think the law applies to them.

Rapists can also have psychopathic traits. I experienced this firsthand in high school. A friend, Lady L, was raped by a young man. He was handsome, popular, the son of wealthy parents, but known for his ego, love of flirting, and ability to worm his way out of trouble. When she was asked out by the boy who made every girl’s heart flutter, rumors began to swirl about his penchant for rape. After her date, everyone noticed a change in her. A girl who had once dressed well and took pride in her social calendar was seen in baggy clothes and withdrew from all activities. I remember noticing, but I never put the signs together because no one taught us what they meant. Thirty-five years later, Lady L finally told her family and friends what had happened. She’d lost her virginity to a man who drugged and raped her. He never paid for his crime, and his wife and children do not know what he did.

Through fiction, a reader can safely delve into the mind of such twisted people. River of Ashes is a cautionary tale about a guy who is perfect—until he isn’t. Sometimes evil hides behind a handsome face and killer smile. Beau Devereaux, the golden boy of St. Benedict, Louisiana, is the catch of the town. But behind his Prince Charming persona hides a monster. Beau’s victims never saw him coming, either. And even after he commits heinous acts, people keep quiet for the same reasons most young women do today—fear of reprisals, humiliation, peer pressure, and lack of trust in “the system.” Part of me wanted to write River of Ashes for my Lady L, to help open readers’ eyes to what can happen. People are rarely who they seem, which is even more evident with psychopaths. We all judge a book by its cover. We admire the packaging and, from that, develop a sense of trust. But until we urge people to question every Prince Charming that comes along, the suffering of women in our society will continue to be the focus of movies and novels.

Some readers wonder why Beau Devereaux is the way he is, but there is no clear explanation. The abuse excuse made famous in the Menendez brothers’ trial does not apply to most psychopaths. A few came from loving homes such as Dennis Radner, the BTK killer. And though there isn’t a psychopath gene, studies show psychopathy does run in families. Even if a parent doesn’t exhibit any traits, they may carry a genetic variant that increases their child’s chance of psychopathy. Troubling behaviours usually emerge during childhood and worsen over time. Puberty is when most develop dark fantasies they act out later in life. Such was the case with Jeffrey Dahmer and John Wayne Gacy. No one expects to come face to face with a psychopath, but some of us already have. So, look beneath the shiny veneer if anyone appears too good to be true. Educating young people today could spare many from becoming victims in the future. Acknowledging such horrific subjects isn’t easy, but it is necessary. We have an opportunity to raise awareness, even if we must tackle such an unsettling subject one book at a time.  

Rivers of Ashes by Alexandrea Weis and Lucas Astor (Vesuvian Books) Out Now

Along the banks of the Bogue Falaya River, sits the abandoned St. Francis Seminary. Beneath a canopy of oaks, blocked from prying eyes, the teens of St. Benedict High gather here on Fridays. The rest of the week belongs to school and family—but weekends belong to the river. And the river belongs to Beau Devereaux. The only child of a powerful family, Beau can do no wrong. Star quarterback. Handsome. Charming. The 'prince” of St Benedict is the ultimate catch. He is also a psychopath. A dirty family secret buried for years, Beau's eveil grows unchecked. In the shadows of the haunted abbey, he commits unspeakable acts on his victims and ensires their silence with threats and intimidation. Senior year, Beau sets his sights on his girlfriend's headstrong twin sister, Leslie who hates him. Everything he wants but canot have, she will be his ultimate prize. As the victim toll mounts, it becomes clear that someone must stop Beau Devereaux. And that someone will pay with their life.

More information about Alexandrea Weis can be found on her website. You can also follow her on Twtter @alexandreaweis and on Facebook and Instagram @alexandreaweis



Friday, 29 April 2022

Why We Listen to Psychopaths: The compelling testimony of the smartest, coldest figures in literature

“You caught me because we’re very much alike. Without our imaginations, we’d be like all those other poor dullards. Fear is the price of our instrument".

Hannibal Lecter delivered those lines to Special Agent Will Graham while supposedly helping him to catch a serial killer (and actually trying to get him and his family killed by said killer. Classic.) 

What Hannibal engages in here is some textbook psychopathic manipulation. He begins by telling Will that they are they are different and special, with their own bond. He gives Will the ultimate compliment in telling him he is a psychopath like him. He must be, because it takes a psychopath to imagine how another’s mind might work. 

But Lecter’s comment says more than this, too. It sums up, neatly, the particular draw that the psychopath has on all of us. They provide a vividness and imagination that is anything but dull. Time spent with one is, at first at least, addictive and enthralling and enlivening. It throws everything else into the shade – but it comes at a cost. 

In fiction, that cost can range from the small – like having to live with someone who might just decide to kill you – to the major. We’ll call this worst option “They kill everyone you know and then either kill you, or frame you.” 

For some reason, despite the obviousness of this cost, we can’t get enough of psychopaths. From Villanelle in Killing Eve to Amy Dunne in Gone Girl; from Tom Ripley and all his talents, to Moriarty in Sherlock Holmes. From the Marquise and Visconte in Liaisons Dangereuses, to the dark antics of Dexter: we are fascinated by them. And of course there’s Hannibal himself, the most-quoted psychopath of them all, and the reason Antony Hopkins rarely gets invited to kids’ parties. 

It isn’t just that we like to watch them do their evil misdeeds. It is, I think, more profound than that. We crave their insight, because they have an ability to cut through all the layers of social conditioning and say piercing truths that none of us are willing to. They are, in literature at least, always profoundly smart. 

And there’s a small part of us that wants them to be redeemable, too. We are desperate for them to turn out to be the charming, likable version of themselves that they put forward when it suits them (usually right at the beginning or just as you are about to tell them “no”). We want them to genuinely see the main character as special in the way that they claim, and to go out of their way to save them from harm. 

I was certainly conscious of all this when writing Keely, my very own psychopathic young woman, in Little Sister. She is someone who seems to have been willing to sacrifice anything to get what she wanted, including her own younger sister Nina, and in the early chapters, sits opposite DCI Jonah Sheens, telling him that he needs to play her game or never see Nina alive again.

The problem for Jonah is that, like so many of those who encounter a psychopath, he doesn’t know whether to believe what she is telling him; or to treat her as you might a snake. And every sudden rush of belief in her as human comes up against her biting sarcasm – or against what seems to be cold, hard reality. 

So why does Jonah keep trying, and why do all of us want to hang in there, too?

Intellect without empathy

The strange thing about our belief in psychopaths is that we look to them for an understanding of human nature. It’s strange because these people lack empathy, the one quality necessary to really understand the people around us. In its place, psychopaths have (in fiction at least) pure intellect, which has allowed them to learn how to manipulate people. They may not have always grasped complex emotions, but they have recognised what ordinary peoples’ grubbier desires are and how to control them. And though they lack any morality, they are quite happy to use other people’s desire to be moral for their own ends. It immediately gives them a starting bonus. Think Iago in Othello, mocking his superior for his “foolish honesty” and using it to destroy him. 

And yet, in spite of their lack of empathy, these villainous psychopaths so often deliver exactly the kind of insight that makes us feel like they’re voicing all the thoughts we’ve had but not been able to put into words. Take, for example, Amy Dunne’s glorious rant about “cool girls” in Gone Girl. 

“Men always say that as the defining compliment, don’t they? She’s a cool girl. Being the Cool Girl means I am a hot, brilliant, funny woman who adores football, poker, dirty jokes, and burping, who plays video games, drinks cheap beer, loves threesomes… Men actually think this girl exists. Maybe they’re fooled because so many women are willing to pretend to be this girl… You are not dating a woman, you are dating a woman who has watched too many movies written by socially awkward men who’d like to believe that this kind of woman exists and might kiss them.”

If you’re anything like me, it’s impossible to read that as a woman and not feel as though Amy Dunne has cut to the heart of your own discomfort with this kind of woman: a woman held up as an ideal, but who is acting with only the male gaze in mind. It’s wonderful to have that behaviour exposed. Liberating.

The same can be said for the Marquise de Merteuil’s reflections on the status of women in Les Liaisons Dangereuses: 

“I already knew that the role I was condemned to, namely to keep quiet and do what I was told, gave me the perfect opportunity to listen and observe… I became a virtuoso of deceit. It wasn't pleasure I was after, it was knowledge. I consulted the strictest moralists to learn how to appear, philosophers to find out what to think, and novelists to see what I could get away with. And in the end, I distilled everything to one wonderfully simple principle: win or die.”

Like Amy, she rages against how society is attempting to make her and other women behave, and chooses another path. But such observations are also part of the psychopath’s toolkit. By revealing them to us, we’ve been drawn into a feeling of fellowship with Amy, and with the Marquise. We feel that we might sympathise with her. We might even like her. 

These thoughts may also, perhaps, not be quite true. Just like Lecter’s reflections on Will or Clarice, those harsher thoughts of ours about “cool girls” – those tired-and-fed-up judgements that she is echoing – may be no more the right answer than the ones wrapped in social norms and empathy. People are complex, after all. They might like the things they claim to like more than Amy Dunne understands. And the Marquise’s thoughts about being condemned to “shut up and do as she was told” are perhaps belied by the way other clever women of her generation lived their lives. 

I had Keely Lennox paint a similarly harsh portrait of human nature. She tells Jonah:

“We all have the same savage possibility in us. I know I do. Mine got stripped pretty bare by everything. To find my sister, you have to look in the mirror, and actually see what’s there. Have a good delve into all the dark places. At all the times you’ve chosen your own interests over someone else’s. All the petty or selfish things you’ve done. 

Isn’t it weird how, with all those things, you can still hold it all together and tell yourself you’re a good person? That’s because you didn’t have the same pressure I did. You know, I’d probably be a lot like you if all the bad stuff had happened later. It wasn’t really child-appropriate, any of it. The trouble is, nobody’s overseeing this stuff, and life just does its thing. It has basically no respect for ratings.”

It’s persuasive and engaging, and like Hannibal Lecter’s words to the officers who come to see him, it puts Jonah and Keely on a level to a certain extent. But is it honestly true?

In both Amy and the Marquise’s cases, there were other courses of actions open to them than the destructive ones they took. Amy might simply have exposed her husband’s affair, instead of framing him for murder. The Marquise might have sought a partner who saw her as an equal and gathered like-minded people around her. But that was never their game. 

Playing nicely wasn’t Keely’s game, either. But it isn’t clear to Jonah or his team whether that happened out of choice – or out of necessity. And I won’t spoil the surprise here by revealing all…

The hope of redemption

And so we come on to the other incredibly appealing side to the psychopath: that strange hope in all of us that the bad will be redeemed. It is a trope seen over and over again in literature: most commonly in the bad boy turned good, but only because of the love of a particular person, or the friendship of another. 

It is this trope that underlies the draw of The Silence of the Lambs, and still more so the Hannibal TV spin-off. We have seen Will Graham and then Clarice Starling finally get to Hannibal. They have each of them become a soul-mate. An equal. Someone with a bond that goes beyond the normal. Instead of simply voicing a recognition of them in order to manipulate, Hannibal has in each case become emotionally entangled with the investigating officer. It is never more clear than when, in the series, Hannibal asks Will Graham, “Do you think you can change me as I’ve changed you?” We know that Will is right when he replies that he already has.

We see it clearly in Villanelle’s relationship with Eve, where the psychopathic assassin is suddenly drawn to care for and protect the woman she becomes besotted with. And once again, this obsessive care is reserved for Eve and Eve only. Her husband and friends are no more than collateral. 

We see it in the development of Joe Goldberg in Caroline Kepnes’s You series, and even in Humbert Humbert in Lolita. We see it in Amy Dunne’s bloody return to Nick after he calls to her on-air in Gone Girl; and in the Visconte Valmont’s respect and love for Madame de Tourvel in Les Liaisons Dangereuses - while he continues to treat Cecile Volanges as though she is worthless. 

The fascinating side to all of this is that we all of us appear to identify with the main character in these scenarios. We take satisfaction from seeing the psychopath not only become to a very limited extent good, but more importantly, besotted. Even when the psychopath still treats others with as little care as ever, and perhaps almost because they still do, we find ourselves drawn to them and this new close relationship.

There’s a real question to ask, here, about what makes this so fascinating. The answer seems, to me, clear. We’re all of us, when becoming absorbed in these books or films, seeing ourselves in those main characters. And that means that we have been singled out as special by the psychopath. That manipulative, charming man or woman with their promise that we meant something has suddenly decided that we really did mean something. This hardest of people to please and reach has actually come to like and respect us.

And somehow, this is the very best prize of all.

Little Sister by Gytha Lodge is published on 28th April by Penguin Michael Joseph. 

Two sisters went missing. Only one of them came back... Detective Jonah Sheens is enjoying a moment of peace and quiet, when a teenage girl wanders out of the wood. She's striking, with flame-red hair and a pale complexion. She's also covered in blood. She insists she's fine. It's her sister he needs to worry about. Jonah quickly discovers that Keely and her sister, Nina, disappeared from a children's home a week ago. Now, Keely is here - but Nina's still missing. Keely likes to play games. She knows where her sister is - but before she tells, she wants Jonah's full attention. Is she killer, witness, or victim? And will Jonah find out what Keely's hiding, in time to save Nina?


You can follow Gytha Lodge on Twitter @theGyth. You can also find her on Facebook



Wednesday, 7 July 2021

Death at the Dairy Queen by Brad Hunter

 

The joint’s door was wide open and the bags of garbage never made it to the trash. 

The store manager’s car sat alone in the empty parking lot.

And behind the Dairy Queen in Trenton, Ontario -- about 105 miles east of Toronto -- was the body of my baseball coach, Frank Calder.

He was just 23.

Cops never said how he died but his death was ruled a homicide. 

Police sources later told me he had been stabbed to death in what they believe was a botched robbery. For a man’s life, the take was chump change.

Frank’s murder occurred on May 24, 1976. I was 12-years-old at the time and his killing had a long-lasting effect on me, one which has never really left.

Murder is like that.

His murder remains unsolved although there have been rumours for years that the killer was killed in a motorcycle accident in Germany several years after the fact.

Even as I covered an increasing number of homicides during my career as a crime reporter, none stood out more than the death of Frank Calder. It was not sensational, in fact, it was pedestrian.

Not, however, to the people who knew and loved him.

About 20 years later I was on assignment for another newspaper and was given a tour of the gymnasium-sized cold case evidence room of the Ontario Provincial Police.

When I glanced over my shoulder, there was the evidence box: FRANCIS CALDER 5/24/76.

That horrific act so long ago cemented my fascination with violent crime.

I remain vexed by homicide. Its perpetual question remains as old as Cain and Abel. Why?

Perhaps the reason is ridiculous, at least to you and I, but for others their beef is serious enough to kill for.

Most murders that I have covered have not been locked door mysteries ala Agatha Christie. More often than not, they are unrelentingly stupid with little to gain financially or personally.

It’s like on the true crime popcorn show, Forensic Files. Within five minutes 90% of the time you know the killer is going to be the husband or wife.

Now, after 30 years of covering crime in Canada and the United States, it remains as fascinating as ever.

In the intervening years, I have covered probably more than 400 homicides.

From the run-of-the-mill to some of the most sensational murders of our times, many for the fabled New York Post.

I sat across from real estate scion Robert Durst (The Jinx) on a flight from Philadelphia to Houston where the squirelly rich kid would face justice for the alleged beheading murder of his neighbour in Galveston.

Then there were the mobsters.  

On the day John “The Dapper Don” Gotti pegged out in 2002 I managed to find the son of the first man the gangster whacked.

Gotti made his bones by killing Irish-American gangster Jimmy McBratney AKA Jimmy From Queens on May 22, 1973 at Snoope’s Bar and Grill on Staten Island.

Jimmy Bratney Jr.? He was glad Gotti was on an express train to hell, after all, the future godfather had shattered his young life.

The collection of true crime tales  in Cold Blooded Murder may not have the same headline-grabbing appeal as a mob rubout. 

But the stories in this volume are more fascinating -- and relatable. Killers and victims alike are normal people thrust into extraordinary situations by greed, malice and lust..

Aside from several serial killers, like the I-5 killer and the Dating Game Killer, it is husbands and wives, girlfriends and boyfriends, sons and daughters.

People like Mark Winger.

An apparently devoted husband and father who was carrying on an affair with the sexy young nanny. Winger wanted his wife Donna out of the way, and he wanted her dough.

He took his wife off the board and found a perfect patsy.

Ben Novack Jr. inherited fabulous wealth as the owner of the storied Fontainbleu Hotel in Miami Beach. He grew up around Frank Sinatra, Dean Martin and other luminaries of the 1950s and 1960s.

He also owned the world’s largest collection of Batman memorabilia, including the Batmobile.

But in a hotel outside New York City, Novack had his brains beat in. Result? A toe-tag in the morgue.

Was there something about his ex-stripper wife?

Janet Chandler was raised in a strict, Bible-punching home and was a member of her Michigan church’s choir.

Straight-laced, quiet, devoted to church and family.

And apparently sex and partying. Did her new penchant get her killed?

These stories are a gumbo of America’s darkest demons that are, at once, right now and as timeless as the gunfight at the O.K Corral.

As The Clash sang, “Killers in America work seven days a week”.

 

Cold Blooded Murder: Shocking True Stories of Killers and Psychopaths by Brad Hunter (Ad Lib Publishers Ltd) Out Now

Murder is the most vile crime known to man.  It can be triggered by love or money or sex. Those are the three big ticket items for homicide. But people are strange. They will kill for the most obscure and ridiculous of reasons. In 30 years covering murder, I have discovered each one has its own flavour. Cops and friends can be stunned by the evil lurking within a seemingly ordinary man or woman. In this collection of some of the most memorable cases I've reported on, there are serial killers, rich kid monsters, football stars and wives in pursuit of hormone-charged hijinks... The very rich and the very poor. Successful lawyers and hotel executives. Southern belles who could melt butter with a come hither wink and a sexy drawl. Daddy's girls with gleaming smiles, good marks and possessed by the devil.  These are stories of American crimes and they stretch from coast to coast.  You will find cheating husbands and wives so desperate for love that they'll kill for it. When the mob kills, it's never personal. It's strictly business. With the murderers in Cold Blooded Murder, it's ALWAYS personal.

 You can follow Brad Hunter on Twitter @HunterTOSun